Readers,
I was inspired to write this post by recent comments I heard from people close to me (no names here as I don't want to throw anyone 'under the bus'). The comments regarded African Americans, but are in no way limited to that sub-section of the American populace. To set the scene for this monologue, I will venture back in time to the era of my first 'girlfriend', circa 4th or 5th grade. I was 'dating' an African American girl and our relationship was as lovely, unserious, and silly as any 4th/5th grade relationship could be. Looking back through the somewhat foggy lens of past, I never thought her skin color to be odd or different or abnormal or honestly anything to inspire a negative passing thought. She was half-black, half-white and I was (and am) pale and resemble a vampire. A year or so passed, and she moved somewhere north and we stopped talking. I don't remember missing her, though I did call her several years later, but was too shy to talk to her.
I digress, and I'll return to the recent history. I was in College and was attracted to a smart and confident African American individual. I wanted to pursue her, but never really had the chance as I was between relationships. Anyway, I was told by one individual to avoid her. I was taken aback and asked why. This individual responded that white and black relationships don't work, because blacks are so 'different'. I was shocked, saddened and angry. I couldn't believe that people still think that way. I felt as if the victories of the African American equality movement were not as complete as I had hoped. This same individual (typically not a overt racist) recently reiterated that whites and blacks shouldn't be together, because of 'differences' (this argument was also used against Muslims). These differences were never promulgated, but then again, I wasn't listening much at that point.
The other comments to be exposed, are the constant stereotypes I hear of this or that hypothetical African American being a gangster or a marathon runner or a basket ball player. These stereotypes have sickened and saddened me. Have many of us simply internalized and repressed racism and bigotry? The Researchers behind one Harvard/U. of Virginia/U. of Washington project think so:
The '
Implicit Association Test' was designed to monitor implicit associations and biases, such as racial stereotypes, that individuals make in snap judgements. The IAT doesn't measure overt racism or misogyny, etc...it measures the snap associations we make when we read/hear certain words or look at specific pictures representing/depicting particular ethnic groups. The authors suggest that many individuals are implicitly racist, even though most of us will never recognize this. You can take the test
here
So, what can we do to combat implicit or explicit racism? Firstly, we can refuse to take part in ethnic stereotypes, e.g. stop spreading unfair and untrue rumors and'observations' about different ethnic groups. Humor is liberating, but some 'jokes' smack of hatred and not humor. Secondly, we can try to root out the implicit stereotypes that we may harbor. We can do this by stopping ourselves when untrue and negative stereotypes enter our mind, albeit briefly, and change those thoughts to better reflect reality. We can also ensure that negative examples of each ethnic group are not the only individuals we think of when we think of that group, e.g. hitler for the Germans, Stalin for the russians, etc etc. Education is not a panacea, but certainly helps to combat racism.
I am heartened by the election of Barack Obama for many reasons, but the fact that he is half- Black is a testament to the fact that we are healing as a nation-albeit slowly. I hope we are healing-it breaks my heart to hear people close to me anathematize an interracial/interethnic relationship.
Love to hear your comments.
Thanks for reading!
Cameron
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